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Miri Korbman
Sep 15, 20226 min read
Parshas Ki Savo: How Happiness Happens
At the start of therapy, I ask all my patients some version of the same question: “In six months from now, if therapy were useful, what...
Miri Korbman
Sep 8, 20227 min read
Parshas Ki Seitzei: More than a Good Samaritan
The field of social psychology has long been preoccupied with the patterns, mechanisms, and contributing factors of prosocial behavior....
Miri Korbman
Sep 2, 20226 min read
Parshas Shoftim: Of Feelings and Fugitives
When considering the manifold ways in which Torah and psychology intersect, an obvious area of exploration is that of the Torah’s...
Miri Korbman
Aug 26, 20226 min read
Parshas Re’eh: Daring to Choose
This week’s Parsha begins with a slightly enigmatic set of Pesukim. In preparing Bnei Yisrael to enter Eretz Yisrael, Moshe warns them,...
Miri Korbman
Aug 18, 20226 min read
Parshas Eikev: What G-d Wants
As G-d-fearing Jews striving to live righteous and spiritually connected lives, we have likely all had a moment of struggle, confusion,...
Miri Korbman
Aug 12, 20227 min read
Parshas Va’eschanan & Shabbos Nachamu: Radical Acceptance
So here we are, folks. Another year, another Tisha B’Av come and gone. We’ve fasted, we’ve cried, we’ve davened our hearts out. We’ve...
Miri Korbman
Jul 22, 20216 min read
Devarim and the Nine Days: Knowing What We Want
Question: How many therapists does it take to change a light bulb? Answer: One, but the light bulb has to want to change. This oft-quoted...
Miri Korbman
Jul 14, 20216 min read
Devarim: The Danger of Projection
Parshas Devarim features the beginning of Moshe’s account to the Jewish people of the past forty years in the desert, as they stand...
Miri Korbman
Sep 23, 20207 min read
Haazinu and Yom Kippur 5781: The Possibility to Heal
Beth* had spent most of her adolescence in and out of psychiatric inpatient units and had already been in individual therapy for three...
Miri Korbman
Sep 8, 20207 min read
Nitzavim-Vayelech: The Frog, the Fish, and the Freedom to Choose
There is a particularly gruesome “How To” project about which you have probably never been curious, and which is an integral metaphor for...
Miri Korbman
Sep 1, 20205 min read
Ki Savo: Owning the Narrative
Though there is a great deal of debate in the field of psychology regarding the relevance of one’s past to his or her current concerns or...
Miri Korbman
Aug 26, 20205 min read
Ki Seitzei: Radical Root of Teshuva
In November 1785, after accidentally upending a mouse’s nest with his plow, Scottish farmer and poet Robert Burns penned the heartfelt...
Miri Korbman
Aug 19, 20205 min read
Shoftim: Law and Disorder
Like my ninth grade classmates and I, some of you might have had the dubious honor of reading Lord of the Flies by William Golding. The...
Miri Korbman
Aug 11, 20205 min read
Re'eh: It's Not a Contest
In the introduction to her incredibly moving and thought-provoking memoir “The Choice,” psychologist and Holocaust survivor Dr. Edith Eva...
Miri Korbman
Aug 4, 20205 min read
Eikev: What are you Talking About?
Anyone who knows me well knows that I like to tell stories about my nieces and nephews. I may be biased, but I personally believe there...
Miri Korbman
Jul 30, 20205 min read
Va'Eschanan/Shabbos Nachamu: GIVE to Get
In this week’s Torah portion, Moshe continues his parting speech to the Jewish people, recounting his fervent attempts to entreat Hashem...
Miri Korbman
Oct 2, 20195 min read
Vayeilech and Yom Kippur 5780: Don't Just Stand There!
This week’s Parsha begins with an enigmatic statement. Following immediately on the heels of Moshe’s impassioned messages in Parshas...
Miri Korbman
Sep 14, 20194 min read
Ki Savo: The Power of Visualization
In this week’s Parsha, Moshe continues his pump-up speech to the Jewish people, who are stationed on the shores of the Jordan River,...
Miri Korbman
Sep 14, 20195 min read
Nitzavim: Creating Distance and Coming Close
It is far from coincidental that Parshas Nitzavim is read each year in the lead up to Rosh Hashana. Looking through the text of this...
Miri Korbman
Sep 11, 20195 min read
Ki Seitzei: What's Love Got to Do With It?
This week’s Parsha discusses the laws of inheritance for a man who has married more than one wife. The psukim read as follows, “If a man...
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